Skip to main content

The little things that matter series-Ep3: Words

How often do you talk to people and what kind of impact do your words leave on them?

This is one thing that people hardly ever seem to take note of, simply because the society doesn't have time anymore caring about what's being said, everyone is only caring about what's trending not caring about how the other party feels about it.
A persons word can either impact negatively or positively, this is were a blunt person tends to have issues because he\she says it the way they feel it; to them it may not be a problem cause they've let it out and that's fine but those words you've said has it actually done its job of correction or it has just made the person feel bad about him\her self.



 Words influence others and build relationships at work and personally. They can tear down relationships. Simply put, language holds massive, colossal power to manifest change, whether it’s good or bad. 
Marcus Aurelius, the Roman Emperor from 161 to 180 AD, considered to be one of the most Stoic philosophers who ever lived, said: “Perform every act in life as though it were your last.”
We can take this a step further and say: “Speak every word you say in life as though it were your last.” ( this are words taken from google)


Words go a long way in the mind of an individual, it is one of the things causing depression in our society today, it's not just about social media. Today people are afraid to engage in a conversation because they don't want to be silenced or laughed at, unfortunately that's the world we find ourselves today. You never know who is waiting to hear a little word of encouragement, a word to make a person smile or even laugh, a compliment to make a person think good about himself.

TIP:  SAY A WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT TO SOMEONE

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Unspoken words 1.

I be losing it so bad it has become a daily routine  When this phase will pass I’m yearning to know How it’ll pass I’m willing to find out  What it takes I’m willing to know I’ve not drowned in a long time  Seems why I forgot the feel  Saying to search the ends of the earth would be near impossible  Tend to make little shit matter and kill myself with the thought of it Taking a chill pill would be nice but I’ve forgotten what that feels like or even how to Trying these days to find sanity in the WORD but for a moment and then it’s gone because my soul has got a mind of its own I continue where I left off It’s like all these consuming thoughts have become my shadow  Hiding from it is close to impossible  Tears have become a daily companion then when that’s done I try to hide it with a    smile so fake I try to tell myself it’s real I use my own hand and mind to destroy things so good and then begin the loathe...
Post a Comment
Read more

The little things that matter series- SHOWING HURT

Most people hardly show emotions as to when they've been hurt by a statement, an action or even a reaction; simply because no one wants to show weakness to the other but deep down the heart is full of pain. People tend to react to pain felt by denial others by dealing with it and some by acting like they do not care,in my personal opinion, it's better to deal with it so to get it over and done with. For an individual to show how pained he is to me to me is strong because it being done with you create more room in your mind for other useful things. Someone once told me, "the human brain capacity is too little to be occupied with nonsense, but large enough to occupy mind blowing things", at the point this statement was made i didn't quite understand it till I began letting off some steam. it doesn't necessarily have to be at the moment but letting it out to the individual that wronged you and not a third party; reasons because the third party may just add more e...
6 comments
Read more