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The little things that matter series- SHOWING HURT

Most people hardly show emotions as to when they've been hurt by a statement, an action or even a reaction; simply because no one wants to show weakness to the other but deep down the heart is full of pain. People tend to react to pain felt by denial others by dealing with it and some by acting like they do not care,in my personal opinion, it's better to deal with it so to get it over and done with. For an individual to show how pained he is to me to me is strong because it being done with you create more room in your mind for other useful things. Someone once told me, "the human brain capacity is too little to be occupied with nonsense, but large enough to occupy mind blowing things", at the point this statement was made i didn't quite understand it till I began letting off some steam. it doesn't necessarily have to be at the moment but letting it out to the individual that wronged you and not a third party; reasons because the third party may just add more ethanol to the fire already fuming.
 In all essence, learn to express your hurt cause keeping it all locked up just makes does feelings brew to hate and this has caused a lot of relationships to be lost.
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  1. Mrs BJanuary 10, 2020 at 3:00 AM

    Word��

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  2. paulette_aJanuary 10, 2020 at 11:21 AM

    wisdom

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  3. Udoeden AbasiamaJanuary 12, 2020 at 11:17 AM

    Many times people are afraid to open up not necessarily to show their strength bjt because of the fear of been judged

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  4. Mrs BJanuary 13, 2020 at 6:52 AM

    That's true but isn't it better to just let it out cause i personally feel that it's thongs like this that bring rise to depression

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    1. UnknownJanuary 13, 2020 at 12:33 PM

      Yeah
      Letting it out is good. But when there is is no one for you to let it out to... what do you do?

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  5. Mrs BJanuary 13, 2020 at 12:41 PM

    There is always that one person that is willing to listen to you, you see i have come to understand a saying that my mum always says"humans will disappoint but GOD never does". in essence what I'm saying is tell it to GOD; this in my view is even much better cause at the end of the day the quite in your mind becomes better than when you tell a human, cause at times you may not say all that you're feeling inside.

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